Archive for March, 2010

the past few days…

Wednesday, March 31st, 2010

so the past few days have been a little busy… friday night doug and i got some alone time together, we went and ate and had a drink.. it was nice. monday douglas had surgery on his shoulder.. my mother sat with the kids all day and i drove him to ottumwa.. it was a rough day, although i did shop a little ;) we took it easy yesterday.. i cleaned while meleia was at school we then we all hung out with babies… today it was beautiful outside and with doug’s arm feeling better he was able to help drag most of meleia’s summer toys out, like her sandbox and slide, etc… i took hot water and washed everything down and it’s all brand new to her! she had a blast outside today! even the boys got to get in their stroller since it was nice and have a little fresh air.. :) before the pictures i have a side note…
douglas is the best.. before worrying about his surgery he was out shopping for me a new bra and underwear… and meleia candy.. i love him. i love my family.

douglas and i before eating…
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doug outside the hospital :)
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grandpa came by….
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meleia had a race set up in the kitchen with bleachers and fans.. it’s was terrific!
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cade sat in his bumbo…
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collin sat in meleia’s dora chair…
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the boys hung out on the floor together…
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meleia on her dora four wheeler that she is FINALLY not scared of after three years!!
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the boys getting walked…
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cade in his little hat…
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collin in his little hat…
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i hope there are more sunny, nice days in the future…

four month check up for the twins…

Tuesday, March 23rd, 2010

the boys turned four months on the 20th, so we went today for their check up.. i had everything prepared and even gave them tylenol an hour before hand due to them having to have shots… well, when we get there we are informed they are out of one vaccine so we can either come back next week and do the two that they need, or one today- one next week. of course i choose taking them back later to get both at the same time… they are still healthy, growing boys.. perfect dr. batra says.. exactly where they should be on the charts and we don’t even have to account for their prematurity anymore!! as well as us surviving the whole winter without them getting ill :) go us!!!
speaking of growing… ta da!! collin now weights 13′11, and is 25 inches long. Cade weighs 12′10 and is 23 and 1/2 inches… it’s funny, cade has always held in at right about a pound behind :) here are my perfect boys at the dr. and a couple new pictures for the last few days…

being patient waiting boys..
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naked boys waiting for the dr…
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all smiles, mr. cade…
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and smiles from mr. collin too…
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meleia’s first trip to the park this year…

Monday, March 22nd, 2010

danielle offered to take meleia to the park since it was such a beautiful day out today.. of course meleia was ELETATED… she is so excited that summer is coming.. she is going to take swimming lessons, and be in T- Ball.. and she is ready to get to go for walks, have her and daddy time at the park, get out her sandbox and slide, and ride her bike and four wheeler all around!!  plus she knows her birthday is in the summer.  wow, 4 years old, i can’t believe it!!!  what a big, bright, beautiful girl… or i am biased. :)

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my saturday night…

Monday, March 22nd, 2010

douglas was very calm with the whole situation of me going to see bret michaels with the girls, while he stayed home and watched the kids… my mom decided to take meleia for the night, so daddy got some “men” time with the boys.. :) knowing how much i love bret, i am so glad he agreed to let me go. we had a very good time, except when i had to get defensive and hit a girl on the head with my camera ;) … here are a few, of many, pictures from the show..
( i wanna post meleia’s first trip of the spring to the park, too)

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grandma joy gets to visit again…

Thursday, March 18th, 2010

so as most of you already know, my grandma joy has gotten pretty sick over the past year and has had to be put in a nursing home…. between all the snow we’ve had this winter, and me not taking the babies out much with all the sickness around… she has only gotten to see them once before, christmas eve. today was my aunt debbie’s birthday, so after picking meleia up from school we gathered at pizza hut with mom, grandma, debbie, missy, and lori.. and after they brought grandma joy over to visit… you could see the happiness in her eyes.. amazing. she talks about them all the time and this was like the best thing for her… we all had a nice visit for the afternoon… i’m glad for days like this…

here is meleia all dressed and ready for the warm weather for the school day….
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eating at pizza hut, obviously amusing aunt lori…
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grandma joy and collin, cade, and meleia…
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grandma and collin and cade…
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taking a ride in their pimp stroller…
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collin and momma time…
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and they played so hard they passed out together :)
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hope everyone is enjoying family lately…

playing and sleeping kiddos… :)

Monday, March 15th, 2010

we had a good weekend around here.. doug was off all weekend.. and we pretty much just hung out at home.. the boys enjoyed playing with their mobiles we finally put together.. and they slept :)   meleia had a busy weekend as you’ll see in the pictures.. i love my family..

i once thought meleia did good at putting on make up, until she came out looking like this!
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playing at jocelyn’s birthday party…
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and the new play dough she earned..
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the boys enjoying their mobiles..
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little collin played himself to sleep
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my sleeping men
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which reminds me how sleepy i am… all the kiddo’s are in bed.. and i am headed there too. poor douglas is sick so i get night duty until he’s feeling better!!!

our happy boys.

Thursday, March 11th, 2010

it’s still an amazing experience and true shock sometimes that we have twins.
they are such happy boys and looking more and more alike everyday…
cade is catching up with collin weight wise, but is still a shorty pants…
he is no longer my peanut head! :(
we are very lucky to have such handsome, healthy, happy little men..

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quiet. of sorts.

Tuesday, March 9th, 2010

so lately i have been out of sorts.. we all know this.. slowly i am getting things figured out, i’d like to think.. along the way i am helping someone else figure things out long over due as well… and i think together, we will make it.  atleast we are trying.  and willing.  and our love is strong.   strong.  i haven’t  been able to write lately.. i am hoping tofind words again soon… douglas has started writing again.. amazing poems for me.  thanks baby.  i know things are far from perfect right now, in a lot of ways.. but i hold faith that soon everything will be … normal again.  whatever normal is… i love you, douglas.

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they smile!

Wednesday, March 3rd, 2010

a quick update.. the boys are doing terrific… staying awake a lot..telling lots of stories and smiling so much :)   it’s amazing.. they are liking their toys and are now big enough to sit in their bumbo seats…

meleia is still busy as ever and loving school… she still plays dress up every chance she gets, as my pictures will show… and has been going on a lot of play dates lately that she loves..

busy, busy around here for douglas and i still… but we are still pulling through :)     he had his birthday a few days after valentines day… meleia made him the best card ever :)   and he got a lot of nice gifts and cash!   love you baby.

mr. handsome man cade…
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goofy mr. collin
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happy babies…
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and mad babies… :)
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meleia (im)patiently waiting for her nails to dry
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and here she is in all her glory getting to dress herself.. crazy kid.
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doulgas’ many cards for his birthday, along with the awesome pen and business card holder his aunt and uncle sent… can you tell which one is from meleia ;) she spent an hour painting this thing!
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