So things have been really busy around here and not much time to update, due to some medical problems douglas has been having for a few weeks. I have many pictures to upload later, but for now I want to let you in on a little project douglas and my nephew started a few weeks ago…
www.incentervilleiowa.com
It’s an awesome website for the community. It is based on a facebook/craigslist with a free blog for registered users to post anything from garage sales to special messages, etc… There is also a place create a forum and talk about anything you are interested in or want more information on.
Visit the site.. ALL non profit organizations qualify for a FREE page within the website, and any business who donates to a non profit will receive awesome advertising deals from us..
So go register!!!
Here is a screen shot of the awesome design doug came up with!
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New Project
Thursday, April 29th, 2010My “Nene” and Lynn come to visit…
Sunday, April 25th, 2010There is a special woman in my life, and has always been. She is one of my mom’s very best friends and of course, she’s known me since i was born. Her name is Linda, but when i was young i always called her nene.. and it stuck and i still do.. Her sister is lynn. We are almost just as close. When the boys where in the hospital Nene was on the visiting list and brought them gifts and came to see them…. This is the first time they have made it back to town (they live a couple hours away) since then… So they couldn’t believe how much the boys have grown and what they are doing!!! It was really nice to see them and have them enjoy our home and family. I want my children to know her like i did… I am not going to post the picture i got with myself and them, because well… it being early, getting the house cleaned, and kids and clean and ready, i didn’t have much time to get ready!! so i will spare you the picture
hanging out…


linda and the boys…

lynn and the kids…

i hope to see them again soon and i hope everyone had good company this weekend!
the weekend…
Monday, April 12th, 2010so this was doug’s last weekend off from a two week vacation.. and my nephew stayed the weekend helping him with a new project in the works.. it was beautiful weather here and i just hung out with the kids… a pretty normal weekend i must say.. BUT next weekend, if doug doesn’t have to work, we have a baby sitter for the kids, YES, all three!! it will be so good to have some alone time..
here are a few pictures from the weekend… nothing too exciting…
on a side note.. collin is READY TO GO!!! if the kid had a little more strength and balance, he’d be taking off! oh boy… two boys crawling. it will be insane. although i think collin might skip the crawling and go straight to walking.. such big boys.. my idea for when they get mobile is a big octagon gate/play yard that can go in our living room and contain them in a pretty big space when i have to leave the room… and still waiting on t ball sign up’s for the girl… and her swimming lessons… it’s going to be a busy summer… and i might start taking classes again for medical transcription.. i am not sure, i have a lot to look in to.. but, we’ll see… here are some pictures from the weekend…
the happy boys before our walk…

handsome cade sticking in there.. he looks so funny..

collin fell asleep, head tilted and all…

danielle, cade, and meleia eating at the dairy queen…

meleia playing with nichole and alicia’s children…

jeffrey enthused to be watching the kids play.. lol

thanks douglas… back at ya..

the beautiful tulip tree in our backyard…

meleia and kaylen in the wagon, with brynn pushing and carson hanging out beside…

and no post is complete with a picture of sassy sue…

fun spring days
simple kind of life…
Friday, April 9th, 2010since doug had surgery he has been home for two weeks.. we’ve accomplished a lot and he has gotten the time to spend with me, meleia, and the boys… we have been doing things that need done around the house, playing with meleia, cooking incredible meals, and just being together.. it has been nice.. the boys continue to crack us up everyday as well as beautiful meleia.. not much else to update on
the boys hanging out with dad…

their outfits say “double trouble” and each has their name underneath a character.. ![]()

brothers conversing…

my beautiful girl…

tired of getting pictures taken…

mr. cade…

mr. collin

my fifteen year old nephew is staying the weekend with us.. i’ll experience what it’s life with four kids, one being a teenager! wish me luck!
Easter…
Monday, April 5th, 2010we had a very wonderful easter here.. it was mine and douglas’ second easter today… although all of the kids woke at different times, we were able to spend some time with each one while getting their things..
meleia woke first… and hunted around the house for eggs. it didn’t take her long!! she was so excited at all the candy they were filled with!! she walks around like a zombie saying “chocolate” lol… she then opened her easter basked full of money, clothes, toys, and more candy.. i’d say she was pretty happy.



collin woke up next and was in a good mood watching everything he was getting..
clothes, candy, toys, a duckie…


and then poor cade.. you can tell he doesn’t feel good in these pictures.. but he still enjoyed, i promise ![]()

the rest of the day we took it pretty easy. i cooked a roast and we all lounged all day. it was a very nice easter
my mother’s baptism…
Monday, April 5th, 2010saturday evening my mother took her final steps to being a catholic. she has attended, not regularly, for about three years, a catholic church out of town when visiting friends… then for over six months now she has been taking classes at the local catholic church, St. Mary’s. it was a very neat experience, as it was easter vigil as well and me not knowing much about the catholic religion. we stood outside around a fire for awhile. and the church was dark most of the tme with us holding small cadoles. ,p, was so glad to be the one to have like two full pews of family there to support. the ceremony was long, three hours to be exact.. before hand.. her friends leeanne and becky, her sponser kathy, my sister and her boyfriend, my aunts debbie and lori and i (no baby sitter so douglas got to stay home with the kiddos) went out to eat mexican.. i am so glad that she had so many loved ones with her, as my brother and his girlfriend and another aunt and uncle showed up at the ceremony.. she got some really neat gifts from everyone…
me, mother, and my sister before…

the ceremony…





way to go mom!! we’re very proud of you!!
the past few days…
Wednesday, March 31st, 2010so the past few days have been a little busy… friday night doug and i got some alone time together, we went and ate and had a drink.. it was nice. monday douglas had surgery on his shoulder.. my mother sat with the kids all day and i drove him to ottumwa.. it was a rough day, although i did shop a little
we took it easy yesterday.. i cleaned while meleia was at school we then we all hung out with babies… today it was beautiful outside and with doug’s arm feeling better he was able to help drag most of meleia’s summer toys out, like her sandbox and slide, etc… i took hot water and washed everything down and it’s all brand new to her! she had a blast outside today! even the boys got to get in their stroller since it was nice and have a little fresh air..
before the pictures i have a side note…
douglas is the best.. before worrying about his surgery he was out shopping for me a new bra and underwear… and meleia candy.. i love him. i love my family.
douglas and i before eating…

doug outside the hospital ![]()

grandpa came by….

meleia had a race set up in the kitchen with bleachers and fans.. it’s was terrific!

cade sat in his bumbo…

collin sat in meleia’s dora chair…

the boys hung out on the floor together…

meleia on her dora four wheeler that she is FINALLY not scared of after three years!!

the boys getting walked…

cade in his little hat…

collin in his little hat…

i hope there are more sunny, nice days in the future…
four month check up for the twins…
Tuesday, March 23rd, 2010the boys turned four months on the 20th, so we went today for their check up.. i had everything prepared and even gave them tylenol an hour before hand due to them having to have shots… well, when we get there we are informed they are out of one vaccine so we can either come back next week and do the two that they need, or one today- one next week. of course i choose taking them back later to get both at the same time… they are still healthy, growing boys.. perfect dr. batra says.. exactly where they should be on the charts and we don’t even have to account for their prematurity anymore!! as well as us surviving the whole winter without them getting ill
go us!!!
speaking of growing… ta da!! collin now weights 13′11, and is 25 inches long. Cade weighs 12′10 and is 23 and 1/2 inches… it’s funny, cade has always held in at right about a pound behind
here are my perfect boys at the dr. and a couple new pictures for the last few days…
being patient waiting boys..

naked boys waiting for the dr…

all smiles, mr. cade…

and smiles from mr. collin too…

my saturday night…
Monday, March 22nd, 2010douglas was very calm with the whole situation of me going to see bret michaels with the girls, while he stayed home and watched the kids… my mom decided to take meleia for the night, so daddy got some “men” time with the boys..
knowing how much i love bret, i am so glad he agreed to let me go. we had a very good time, except when i had to get defensive and hit a girl on the head with my camera
… here are a few, of many, pictures from the show..
( i wanna post meleia’s first trip of the spring to the park, too)




grandma joy gets to visit again…
Thursday, March 18th, 2010so as most of you already know, my grandma joy has gotten pretty sick over the past year and has had to be put in a nursing home…. between all the snow we’ve had this winter, and me not taking the babies out much with all the sickness around… she has only gotten to see them once before, christmas eve. today was my aunt debbie’s birthday, so after picking meleia up from school we gathered at pizza hut with mom, grandma, debbie, missy, and lori.. and after they brought grandma joy over to visit… you could see the happiness in her eyes.. amazing. she talks about them all the time and this was like the best thing for her… we all had a nice visit for the afternoon… i’m glad for days like this…
here is meleia all dressed and ready for the warm weather for the school day….

eating at pizza hut, obviously amusing aunt lori…

grandma joy and collin, cade, and meleia…

grandma and collin and cade…

taking a ride in their pimp stroller…

collin and momma time…

and they played so hard they passed out together ![]()

hope everyone is enjoying family lately…
playing and sleeping kiddos… :)
Monday, March 15th, 2010we had a good weekend around here.. doug was off all weekend.. and we pretty much just hung out at home.. the boys enjoyed playing with their mobiles we finally put together.. and they slept
meleia had a busy weekend as you’ll see in the pictures.. i love my family..
i once thought meleia did good at putting on make up, until she came out looking like this!

playing at jocelyn’s birthday party…

and the new play dough she earned..

the boys enjoying their mobiles..


little collin played himself to sleep

my sleeping men

which reminds me how sleepy i am… all the kiddo’s are in bed.. and i am headed there too. poor douglas is sick so i get night duty until he’s feeling better!!!
our happy boys.
Thursday, March 11th, 2010it’s still an amazing experience and true shock sometimes that we have twins.
they are such happy boys and looking more and more alike everyday…
cade is catching up with collin weight wise, but is still a shorty pants…
he is no longer my peanut head! ![]()
we are very lucky to have such handsome, healthy, happy little men..

quiet. of sorts.
Tuesday, March 9th, 2010so lately i have been out of sorts.. we all know this.. slowly i am getting things figured out, i’d like to think.. along the way i am helping someone else figure things out long over due as well… and i think together, we will make it. atleast we are trying. and willing. and our love is strong. strong. i haven’t been able to write lately.. i am hoping tofind words again soon… douglas has started writing again.. amazing poems for me. thanks baby. i know things are far from perfect right now, in a lot of ways.. but i hold faith that soon everything will be … normal again. whatever normal is… i love you, douglas.


they smile!
Wednesday, March 3rd, 2010a quick update.. the boys are doing terrific… staying awake a lot..telling lots of stories and smiling so much
it’s amazing.. they are liking their toys and are now big enough to sit in their bumbo seats…
meleia is still busy as ever and loving school… she still plays dress up every chance she gets, as my pictures will show… and has been going on a lot of play dates lately that she loves..
busy, busy around here for douglas and i still… but we are still pulling through
he had his birthday a few days after valentines day… meleia made him the best card ever
and he got a lot of nice gifts and cash! love you baby.
mr. handsome man cade…


goofy mr. collin


happy babies…

and mad babies… ![]()

meleia (im)patiently waiting for her nails to dry

and here she is in all her glory getting to dress herself.. crazy kid.

doulgas’ many cards for his birthday, along with the awesome pen and business card holder his aunt and uncle sent… can you tell which one is from meleia
she spent an hour painting this thing!

our home…
Friday, February 19th, 2010i’ve been wanting to do a post of our new house so badly and finally i’ve found the time to take the pictures and edit them… douglas worked very hard to get this home ready for us. we are very proud to be able to live here with our family… it is beautiful.. amazing.. and has a lot of space beings we have two of everything now!!! keep in mind all the baby/toddler things that have to be all over
beware.. there are a lot of pictures
we use the back patio door as our main entrance.. here is walking in..


the stairs in the previous picture lead to the upstairs… my favorite
besides the hot tub there is an office area up there as well..

here is walking into the kitchen from the entryway and views of the kitchen.. it is by far the largest one i’ve ever had and i LOVE having a bar area.. the door way shown goes to the basement.. which there are no pictures of because it is so chaotic down there right now.. but it is fully finished.. my laundry area is down there as well as a storage room and a huge room that right now serves as doug’s office/meleia’s playroom… but.. here is the kitchen…



the living room is huge thank goodness because of having to have two swings and bouncy chairs! besides some of meleia’s toys too!!! mind you, we have yet to finish hanging things on one wall.. you can see them still stacked.. ![]()



the spare bathroom.. or as meleia calls it.. hers.

miss meleia’s room.. she likes to draw pictures, get tape, and hang them on her walls.. or anywhere .. haha



on to the boys’ room… which.. obviously they don’t spend anytime in there yet.. so it doesn’t bother me that we are still waiting on the tye dye bumper pads and curtain… otherwise right now it just holds their clothes.. supplies… and is a cute work in progress.. i’d say within a couple of months they should be sleeping in there… or we can hope!



and last but not least.. the master bed room and bath… i’ve never had my own closet before, let alone a walk in.. so i had to take a special picture of that as well
here is another room that has the case of nothing being hung on the walls yet and the stuff is still in the corner.. lol. but.. soon.






hope you love it as much as we do!!!
