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small update.

Monday, February 8th, 2010

so less than a week in between posts is pretty good, i’d say  ;)

things remain about the same around our household.. just the everyday routine we’ve come accustomed to… which soon i want to do a post showing our lovely new home.. just not enough time to go around taking pictures right now… soon though. the hot tub is working all the time now.. doug tends to use it more than me, but i sure get in every chance i get… even if for only a few minutes. it’s awesome having one inside.. that would be on benefit to buying this house.. although i really don’t think that this is the house i want to live in forever… anyways… that is a whole different story.

it’s been snowing a lot here, which causes meleia to not have school the next day.. like right now.. not supposed to stop until after we have over a foot! being so young she of course is still at the phase of wanting school, so here is her attitude towards all of this :)

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collin and cade both continue to get bigger everyday!! they smile so much now and coo a lot too.. it’s really cute.. i can’t wait for another month or so when they can really being to do more..

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my babies
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and douglas.. i miss you. i miss us. i’m tired…. you’re tired…
and it seems like a life time since there has been a moment like this…
but atleast we are still here together…

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busy life..

Tuesday, February 2nd, 2010

so i haven’t kept up as well as promised, yet again.. but things are really hectic here, as you can imagine!!  everyone is holding strong somehow though, and we are surviving… hopefully soon michele will take some professional photos of the family, but for now here is a glance at some of what’s been going on..

cade and collin are doing great.. by now collin is over nine pounds and cade is around eight… they are starting to be awake longer, as well as sometimes sleeping longer.. they continue to be good boys and are getting to the age of being real snuggle buddies…

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mr. cade
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they like being together….
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meleia has been playing with her dress up trunk from christmas almost everyday still… she always has on some costume.. jewelry… high heels.. lol
a very busy girl she is.. always playing, playing, playing.. going from one thing to another.. she has picked up on so much and the things that come out of her mouth crack me up… oh this kid… couldn’t live without her..

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and she really, really loves her baby brothers.. how lucky, getting two? :)
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recently she had teddy bear week at school and did special activities with him all week.. we were to prepare a float at home for the bear to ride in and invited to watch the “teddy bear parade” mommy, daddy, danielle, and meleia worked on her float all together and it turned out so cute.. you can’t tell in the picture but the fabric is pink with skulls on it.. which matches her shirt :) and sorry… she walked so fast the picture is blurry, lol.
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after the parade there was some major teddy bear dancing going on ;)
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the same is going on with me.. lol. taking care of kids! doug and i did get out of town last weekend for the night, and it was a much needed break…. for some reason though, there are no pictures… hm… anyways.. my ocd still has not gone away so i still find myself cleaning and doing laundry constantly.. i’ve even gotten baskets and organized the junk drawers.. but i don’t complain because i love to clean.. what i don’t love, is putting away clothes.. and here is one reason why… there are four other closets that look just like this here… wayyyyyyy too many clothes…

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and daddy is the same too.. still working and working… and resting when he gets the chance :)
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hope that everyone is well and that i can update again soon :)
and i also hope that luck is getting better for everyone out there…
because i know a lot of us that need it..

life with twins..

Friday, January 8th, 2010

obviously it’s been awhile since my last post.. life with twins is definitely more than i imagined it to be!!  it’s incredible though, as much as tiring.  i think having one baby would be a piece of cake now!  douglas is a big, big help… getting up every other feeding in the night, and sometimes taking care of the whole night when he doesn’t have to work the next day.  night time is rough with twins as it takes twice as long to do everything and then by the time they are in bed again it’s only a couple of hours before getting up again.. the boys are really good babies though, which is a blessing.  collin tends to need a little more attention, but as cade is growing he is getting there as well.. both are still in perfect health and growing great…. cade is still a little peanut though  :)   meleia is an awesome big sister and helps more than i ever though possible.. it’s amazing to see how well she does with them, even at her young age.  of course the whole family loves them to pieces and stop by often.  doug continues to work at cargirl, as well as trying to work for clients on the side of this hectic household. but we manage.  we’ve got  a few helpers coming in now and i am still able to manage to keep the house as OCD clean as normal  ;)   i don’t get out of the house much, but really i don’t mind it.. doug and i have had a little time to ourselves, but the weekend after my birthday we get to get out of town for the whole night!  recently he also got the hot tub up and running so we have been taking advantage of that… christmas came and went.. we went overboard as usual and everyone got a truck load of things.. but it was terrific.  new years came and went, was nothing exciting, but atleast i was with my babies…for now that’s all of everything new in a nutshell.. i’m really going to try to update more often now… and  i’m very, very behind on pictures on here so i am going to just start posting favorites and some of the older ones can be seen at www.randomsignificance.com

collin christmas eve..
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cade christmas eve..
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meleia at her christmas program for school…
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meleia playing dress up with the items she got from family christmas drawing..
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grandma joy with cade and collin..
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meleia with all her stuff christmas morning.. spoiled!
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my beautiful green children :)
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cade and collin looking adorable!
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the cutest butts around ;)
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very quick update…

Wednesday, November 25th, 2009

our twins have been born :) cade theodore and collin oliver
very exciting…
being completely exhausted all i have time right now to do is give you the link to their own website :)
pretty special boys..
i will post my story and pictures soon, hopefully but for now, you can learn about them at http://www.randomsignificance.com

we are very blessed.

preggo belly at 30 weeks…

Wednesday, October 7th, 2009

preggo

it’s been a long, long time….

Monday, September 21st, 2009

almost two months since i have posted anything… i guess that goes to show how much this pregnancy is taking over my life… there have been many, many events in the past couple of months that have definitely been blog worthy (ultrasound photos, the in laws visiting, meleia starting school, bret michaels concert, getting a new house, jamboree, i could go on and on… ) but rarely do i even turn my computer on now days… i use douglas’s computer to check my facebook and surf around for baby items.. other than that, i’ve been very internet quiet, per se.  i am now 27.5 weeks along, so only about 9 weeks to go- since twins are considered full term at 36.  i still am dealing with the whole having twins issue, which is a given… trying to still figure out how it’s going to work out.. luckily i will have a lot of help… my dear friend mary has been helping me deal with a lot of issues, as well as getting things ready for the arrival of the boys… she is throwing me my baby shower and making awesome tie dye bedding for their cribs.. my belly is growing HUGE and i am mostly over the sickness stage, mostly.  they do leave me very, very tired all of the time though.. soon i will be on bedrest and things will change again.. names have been chosen, however i am keeping them private for now.. .we have gotten a beautiful new house that douglas has been working very hard painting every weekend so it will be perfect for us to move into.. it is sooo big and there will be plenty of room for our growing family.. :)   as well as having a spa room that i will take full advantage of every chance i get!!!  meleia started preschool, blows my mind away.. she is soo incredibly smart and beautiful it’s amazing.  everyday she learns something new and my love for her only grows stronger by the minute.  she is going to be a terrific big sister… her new thing lately is singing song after song after song and practicing ballerina moves that grandma pat taught her.. she has also learned the price of toys and recently has starting asking daddy for “forty dollars for a ki lan doll”  it’s been quite comical.   douglas parents came to visit for three days.. we had a very good time with them and it seems it went to fast… we packed a lot of events into the few short days we had and i am incredibly lucky to have met them.. everyone here loved them and they felt the same.. and the best of all– they told us our present for the babies– a years supply of diapers!!! by far the most amazing and practical thing someone could give us… michele white- our amazing photographer friend- has also opted to give us a free maternity shoot, as well as their new born pictures.. i consider myself very lucky to have all of these special things going on in my life… i will try to update more often, but as we all know, the more time passes, the harder things will be!  wish us luck!  here are a few new pictures…

meleia’s first day of school
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the hottub in our spa room :)
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eating at the resort with doug’s parents…
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meleia found my lipstick!!
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the results are in…

Friday, July 24th, 2009

boys

this is a complete shock (as most of this pretty much as been) to everyone… no one expected me to get two girls like i had hoped, but atleast one of each… as of today.. the ultrasound showed, clearly, two boys… i am soooo… upset. i cried.. and cried again. what will i do with two boys?? i won’t have any idea.. i am so scared.. poor meleia even thought it was one of each and i am sad for her because she won’t have anyone to play dolls with.. lol. obviously this has made me very emotional. i am so girly.. and so is meleia.. how will i deal with frogs and mud? little penis’s? just boy stuff… i know it all sounds petty.. which it is, i know a lot is hormones and still being scared in general.. i know that i will be happy as long as they are both healthy… just very apprehensive at the moment.. name wise, i have no idea really.. it’s really up in the air at this point.. as is everything!! here are two new pictures… at about nineteen weeks..

baby a’s thigh leg and thigh bone…
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side view of baby b’s head and face…
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since they are bigger now and so tight in my stomach it’s hard to get good pictures of them, or even all of one of them it seems.. :)

pray for me!!!

the princess turned three!

Wednesday, July 22nd, 2009

meleia’s birthday was monday, the 20th.  we had her party on sunday… here are quite a few pictures of the big girl’s past few days… her party and her big girl bed…  

the cake
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mommy, meleia, daddy, and spongebob.. lol
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waiting patiently after blowing out candles…
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opening her new dvd player for the van and dvd’s from us..
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more gifts…
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AND… her big girl bed!!! complete with new aerial bedding :) so adorable…
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i can’t believe how time flies.  what an angel i have.  and how lucky i am.  i love you meleia jean oehler.  you have grown into such a mature girl.  :)

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news update…

Monday, July 13th, 2009

being really sick and moody still, as well as a lot going on around here has left me very tired, going to bed shortly after meleia everynight… not leaving much time to blog. pregnancy sure has a way of turning you around, physically and emotionally.. and i guess two babies just makes it worse.

meleia’s THIRD birthday is coming up on the 20th. i can’t believe my girl is three already. we are having her party at pizza ranch and i have purchased the whole spongebob party theme set… cake, balloons, and all… via her request ;) since this is the last year of her being an only sibling, we went a little over board on gifts as well… but i figure she deserves the best. she is my princess!! i am very excited to give her this special day.

lately i’ve been thinking i want the twins to both be boys.. just to make sure meleia stays the little princess.. lol
speaking of twins… so far, so good still.. in a couple weeks we get to find out their sex for sure.. so we will see.. last time i seen the dr the heartbeats were both good and she said that i was measuring about five and a half months normal pregnancy.. and i was only a little over four then.. hehe. so i am getting big.. which is a change for me, but i guess it’s expected with twins! (i better go back to being skinny!) still seeing the dr every two weeks.. but haven’t had to be in the hospital again, thank god… i still get sick everyday almost… and it’s hard to find things that sound good to eat and drink.. and i have like no energy.. but i guess it’s okay… :) getting anxious.

zak, douglas’s youngest son, might come to live with us for a year… to help with the babies, as well as with the business… but that plan is still in the works, we will see what happens..

we are still looking for a house, but hoping the right one will come along soon- i’m ready to get the move over with!! but on a positive note we have finally accomplished the goal of getting a vehicle figured out.. and this week i should be the owner of something new… so that is very exciting to me..

and a few new pictures to share…

meleia on the way to see fireworks..
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doug after all the kids burned his eyes with sparklers, poor guy!!
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meleia holding her own sparkler :)
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meleia’s picture for her party invitations..
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last fourth of july…

Friday, July 3rd, 2009

this is the first holiday after douglas and i became a couple.. so the first time i get to post “the year before” pictures.. it’s amazing how different everyone looks now, these pictures make me laugh… and how time changes everything… i hope this year is as good as last..

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New ultrasound photos…

Monday, June 29th, 2009

last friday we had another ultrasound.. i guess one good thing about having twins is that i get one every four weeks..next time we can tape it.. as wellas getting to find out the sexes!!  that is a very exciting thing for me, as i’m ready to start buying and planning.. and and and..  :)   their heartbeats are well, they are both measuring a little over fifteen weeks, which is what i am, so everything seems to be going well so far..

baby A at 15 weeks
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baby B at 15 weeks
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father’s day weekend…

Monday, June 22nd, 2009

this year father’s day was a extra special beings meleia had someone that she could dedicate the day too.. she was so funny while we were shopping for douglas and my dad, saying “happy father’s day” as loud as she could throughout the store.. her and douglas spent a  lot of time together saturday afternoon outside while i got to go visit my father.. unfortunately i had no camera with me, but he loved his gifts and got a nice surprise of visiting with my brother and nephew that i don’t see often while i was there… saturday night i got a baby sitter for meleia and “the twins” took douglas out to eat at the manhatten.  it was soooo good :)   maybe that’s because douglas let me and the twins have steak, while he had ravoli and salad.. which i ate some of as well!!!  sunday we went to the annual family bbq at debbie and john’s… it is always held for father’s day, as well as for my grandma and grandpa’s (who is gone now, sadly) birthday.. their house is so incredible and it is such a nice area for a family get together.. there is even tv wired up in the tree house for the kids.. hehe.. after eating and the heat, it was home for a nap for the daddy of the day.. and then some more family time with crystal and jerod while meleia and braydin swam in the pool… meleia even stayed the night with grandma so douglas and i had the evening alone… a terrific father’s day, he says… i sure hope so :)   next year there will be two more little ones to help me make the day even more special!

my two favorite people..she thinks it’s hilarious to spray him, and he let’s her :)
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out to eat…
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doug telling the twins hi…
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lucky me.

Thursday, June 18th, 2009

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i realize often when i’m alone at night, when meleia is asleep and douglas is at work… how lucky i really am. we have an amazing daughter.. truly amazing. we don’t have to share her, we are her parents… and douglas takes on the role of her father more and more everyday.. lately i’ve been getting a complete break for an hour before he goes to work so i can watch my “show” :) he takes her to do things when i am not feeling well… he allows her to do things that mommy won’t.. and he has stolen her heart.. i sing ” my girl, my girl, talking about myyyy girl” to her often.. it’s now changed by her to ” my girl, my girl, talking doses girrrrrl” she has become attached. i never thought it would happen. i never thought i’d chance any man hurting her again after her biological dad turned out the way he did.. but here we are, i took the chance, and i’m having luck for once..
douglas is accepting me.. and my crazy hormones.. he is trying his best to understand what i am going through and he rarely gets upset with my actions.. i know i am acting out of control at times, but… hello.. two babies?? :) he works so much at cargil, but still manages to get things done that need taken care of around that house that i can’t do… as well as still catering to my cravings, needs, anything…
he writes for me still.. daily. how amazing is that.. it really can make me in a better mood when i see what he has come up with next… check him out here…   and although his staying up so late at night can bug me at times… atleast i know that he will be able to do it with the babies!!!
speaking of which.. i know that he is going to do everything possible to make sure that out life remains as perfect as it is now, even when the babies arrive. we both know this is not going to be easy.. but as he has said, our love is really strong.. and seems capable of surviving anything.. with that on our side, everything has to be okay.. i know how difficult this is going to be.. i know how wore out and tired i will become.. i know how much extra work it’s going to require… jumping from a three person family to a five is quite the change.. anyone would be scared… but we can do it.. atleast i’m an organized person i guess.. lol
basically i just wanted my douglas to know how much i greatly appreciate everything he is doing for me right now.. there is no way i would be standing without him…
i love you baby.. so so much.

new ring…

Tuesday, June 16th, 2009

i’m not sure what i did to receive another new ring from douglas… beings i’m so grouchy and hard to get along with lately.. maybe it’s because i’m carrying twins, for him… whatever it was, i am thankful.  this makes the fifth ring he’s given me, each time with a special promise behind it.. promises he has yet to break..

it’s beautiful.  in the picture it’s hard to see, but it has hearts on each side of the diamond..

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thank you my douglas..

i need….

Wednesday, June 10th, 2009

a change of atmosphere…
relaxation…
something fun….

really, really bad…

need